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Owed to Joy

 

So Foot loose and caution free

Oh how I wished that could be me

Arms so tied down to my side

A fear down deep I’m trying to hide

Fear of what someone might think

For too long’s been controlling me!

 

Your heart of joy- how can it be?

You can’t help wear it on your sleeve

Mine so bound it hides inside

You’d barely know I was alive

Fear of what someone might do

To squelch my hope now rendered new

  

To one who recent could not see?

You showed love unconditionally

God speaks to you and shows you things

With that a great responsibility

To dress the wounds and help them heal

Mentor His child-overt a steal

 

The reason I see all this in you?

It’s what God asks of me to do

You’ve helped inspire me to rise above

Embrace a calling filled with love

From one who sees the best in me 

I’m free to breathe yes- Free to be!

 

Eloyce

2/23/08

 

Chorus

All things- all things

All things work together for good

All things- all things

All things work together for good

Oh Lord I love You & trust You

I know all things work together for good

 

1st Verse

Help me always to trust You Lord

And lean not on my own ideas 

In all my ways acknowledge You 

‘Cause You to direct my life


 Chorus

 

2nd Verse

I’ll fear not the path ahead

I’ve seen You lead in the past before

You hold everything in Your hands

You’ve always known all that’s in store


 

Bridge-     I’ve been called according to Your propose

                  Seems Your hand’s been laid upon my life

                  Walking mountians high- through the desert valleys

                  You’ve been with me Lord- through all the strife

 

Chorus

 

1st verse

 

Chorus


 

Bridge-     I in no way here will reach perfection

                  You did that– in giving up Your life

                  Then You sent to Earth your Holy Presence

                   Like a warm light burning in the night

 

Chorus

 

Eloyce M Witzel

1998-2008


 

Grounded

 

(Take one)

 

Here I am –

You said wait here for you

Pardon my impatience

I have many things to do 

(Cut!)

 ………. 

(Take two)

 

Here I am –

I feel grounded here today

I can’t remember clearly

How you’ve worked along the way

 (Cut!)

………

 

 (Take three)

 

There I was -

But silence only heard

For Him I sat and listened

Though not a single word!

 

Then a tune

Came to my mind

Though with it came no words

To play with or to rhyme

 

Board with this simple tune

Tried some words into this song

But there again came nonsense

All seemed forced and very wrong

 

Words I pulled from somewhere

Yet they didn’t flow nor rhyme

Try and try again I did

Worse got it every time!

 

I finally realized this song

Was simply stuck on hold

So I hid away the words

In hopes they’d not grow old

 

But still His tune lived on

Quite hopeful it’s turned out to be

I’ll play it here for you some time

And for your self—you’ll see

 

Eloyce M Witzel

2/29/07

 

Here I am …

I am waiting on You

For what ever You have here

To give me to do

 

Here I am…

I am watching for You

For some new hope & focus

A vision renewed

 

Shine Your light in my life

Come and be my main stay

In my heart pour Your spirit

Wash this darkness away

Whisper hope in my ear

Clear the fog and the haze

On this road so less traveled

I know I just can’t make it

Without You


Here I am…

I’ve been listening for You

For some words in the silence

A hush falling new…


…    …    …    …    …   Key change


There You are…

You have eased my soul’s ache

Drawing me closser

With each breath I take


There You are…

You show evidence here

In people around me 

I’m seeing You clear

 

Shine Your light in my life

Come and be my main stay

In my heart pour Your spirit

Wash this darkness away

Whisper hope in my ear

Clear the fog and the haze

On this road so less traveled

I know I just can’t make it

Without You

 

There You are…

You’ve been speaking your voice

With soft whispers of hope

In my soul I rejoice

 

 

Eloyce M Witzel

2003-2008

First off, I want you to know that this letter is for real, and so am I. My grandmother was Lennie Henderson who died at the age of 34 when my father was born. Subsequently, my father was adopted by some friends of the Henderson clan who attended the same church in Orting Washington. Till the age of 8, my father grew up in the area near his Henderson family, and had limited contact with his older 1/2 siblings who were raised by their grandparents, Andrew Jackson and Callie Henderson.

Fast-forward about 67 years. I grew up in a family with good times, showing evidence of ties to artistry and music, but with little to identify where this all came from.”Who were my grandparents whom I never knew?” “Where did they come from?” “Did I look like them?” “Did I have any of their interests or talents which defined who they were?” These were my main questions at the beginning of my quest which started about 12 years ago.

Early on in my search I was able to reunite my father Merle, with his only remaining sibling Bill. Uncle Bill was able to answer a lot of my questions, though many still remain. Although he knew very little of his Virginia ancestry… One thing he did know was how to tell great stories, and I was able to glean some key names and places which eventually led me back to Konnarock, Varginia. He also has a love for music and guitar playing, which were deeply imbedded in his family ties, with the memories of being raised in his grandfather’s home with all the Henderson relatives gathering round. I was starting to see the connections… I was starting to grow some roots.

Just this last week, My husband and I were able to take a trip to Grayson county, VA. One thing we were looking for was the area of “Wilson Creek”, listed as home starting in the 1850 census report.  I wrote my December 11 Blog about this trip…

The one thing we did come away with was the question; Am I related to the talented and famous Wayne Henderson?  Upon our return home, I contacted some west- coast Henderson cousins, who have been connected all their lives, asking the question…

The answer I received was yes.  Here’s how I’m told it goes starting with John L. Henderson b. 1809 in North Carolina, marrying Elizabeth Whittaker, and settling in the Wilson Creek area of Grayson County, Virginia  

1. John A. Hernderson

2. David Henderson  

3. Fieldman Henderson  

4. Walter B.Henderson  

5. Wayne Henderson    

My line goes…

1. William Henderson, (who was a brother to your John A.)

2. Andrew Jackson Henderson, (Moved  family to Oregon about 1900.)

3. Lennie Henderson (died at the birth of 4th child)

4. Merle (adopted by the Breitigams)

5. Eloyce (Breitigam) Witzel    

I believe this makes us 5th cousins.

Since we are related and my 16 year old son Dustin will also be famous some day for his natural musical abilities with the guitar, I was wondering if we can get on your waiting list for a Henderson guitar. We’d be much obliged, and very grateful. 

Sincerely,  your 5th cousin,

Eloyce Witzel

Eddy and I just got back from a trip through Virginia. He was on travel to Washington DC, so I flew there with him, and planned a weekend road trip to Grayson, Washington, Ashe and Smyth Counties. This area is where I’ve traced our Henderson line back to a brick wall, with John A. Henderson married to Elizabeth Whittaker in the 1850 Grayson County Census. There they raised a large family of many boys, thus starting a boome of male Hendersons in the area.

We  began our weekend trip with about 6 hrs. of driving on Friday and stayed the first night in Hillsville, a little community off of the highway where they have a Holiday Inn Express. As we walked in the door of the hotel, I immediately surveyed that someone had been trying to decorate the lobby christmas tree. The front desk worker must of sensed my feelings of wonder at the piles of gold ribbon and scissors gracing the side table next to the partially decorated tree, because she immediately asked if I by any chance knew how to make bows? I just can’t seem to get away from this derorating thing… I spent the evening making the most beautiful bows Hillsville has ever seen. My new friend baked up a fresh batch of chocolate chip cookies for me in gratitude of my “natural talent in bow making.”

The next morning we left Hillsville, driving to Independence where we stopped at the historic courthouse. Even though it was Saturday morning and we only stopped for pictures, we tried the front doors and they were open. This old building has been restored to a beautiful museum and gift shop. There was a lot of historical information there, and we got some books written about the local area. From there we drove south a couple miles down to the North Carolina line so I could mark it off my “states visited” list as number 46!

Back on track and on down the road, we stopped at an antique shop in Mouth Of Wilson where two friendly gentlemen sitting by the fire, told us where to find the “Wilson Creek” area of Grayson county listed in the 1850 census report. “West about 4 miles where 58 turns off to the left,” the younger one said. It turned out that it was very close to today’s Rugby… I got some good pictures along the way, though about this time it started to snow.

After a roadside car pick-nick, of left over cold pizza and chocolate chip cookies from the night before; right there on the hair-pin turn outside Grayson Highlands State Park, (The only piece of road we could find with a shoulder!) we drove on down the winding road to Whitetop and then Konnarock. There we visited my great-great-grandpatents William and Elizabeth Henderson’s graves at Azen Missionary Baptist Cemetery. (Not to be confused with the Regular Baptist Cemetery!) We also saw Uncle Whiley’s grave there, (Uncle Bill remembers him) and many other Henserson graves of which we don’t know how they fit in. I think that’s the closest I’ve ever been to blizzard conditions… Okay, so there was snow and wind, but it was all at the same time! Eddy made me wear 3 jackets and I was still cold! We had to keep going back to the car, and running the heater, before we finally found where William and Elizabeth were buried!

Next was the beautiful picturesque road into Damascus, where traffic actually stood still… After about a half hour of sitting in a line of cars with our motor idling, watching snowflakes wafting about, we realized that we had almost been witness to the Damascus Christmas Parade, this year held in the snow. I wish we could have stayed longer, but we needed to get our little front drive rental car back onto the interstate where we hoped the roads would be cleared.

Interestingly enough, all the people we talked to, in the museum and asking for directions, wanted to know if there was a connection to (their local boy gone famous) Wayne Henderson. He was born and still lives in Rugby. I had to tell them that I didn’t really know, but I bought the book about his music and legendary guitar making, thinking there might actually be a connection here. Evidently he is also known for his talent of telling a good story!

Check him out on You Tube or http://www.waynehenderson.org/Wayne/AboutWayne.htm

Turns out, back home, after contacting some of my west coast Henderson cousins whom I’ve connected with on this 12 year long ancestral journey, I found out that indeed we are related to Wayne Henderson through my great-great-great (Brick-wall) John L. Henderson born in 1809.

So there we have it, connections to good music, expert craftsmanship, and creative story telling… Who knew!